i here you, i think i am done for alittle while, i may sell some stuff and keep one or two but today was another bad day, maybe the worst of my life

Vent man!! If it was that bad don't dwell on that crap. If you don't want to publicize it but want to vent PM me, I'm a good listener.

I hope things turn around quickly for you.

I know someone that's been looking to buy a tekno/neu:whistle:

ok

if you want the motor you can have it


i shouldnt but here goes

i cough my girl friend of 8 years cheating on me, i confronted her about it this morning when she woke up, and now its over with

she was my life,i loved her i told her every day, i showed her every day, i was going to ask her to marry me on July 4th (our anniversary)

i gave her a choice, this life or that one ( i dont even know why i offered, they trust would be gone.) and it wasn't me.

i gave up so much for her, and now what, i have almost no family,and i dont know what to do now

i haven't even told my Friends, most of them will read if here

Damn dude. I've loved one girl in my life, my first son's mother. She and my son live 300 miles away with her more financially secure husband. I think about her everyday. She left me 10 years ago.

I don't have any feel good sayings or even any good advice,as positive of a guy as I am. That just plain sucks. I can't believe she did that to you. That's the ultimate betrayal.

Why the f didn't she part ways if she wasn't in love with you, instead of living a lie.

I only know you through here but I know you deserve better, but I hear that she was what you wanted.

Seriously man, need to talk or even just bs to get your mind off things, I got nothing else to do I'm disabled. RCMbrothers are here for ya

That's a dreadful thing to happen Semi Pro. I'm sorry to hear about it. I guess the rc will take a back burner for a little while.

thanks paralyzed

i dont understand it either

everyone at her work knew, it was her boss she was f ing, no one had the ball to tell me

maybe it will be for the best, i spent the whole day doing house work after droping all of her things off at he parrents house, she still has a mustang i was restoring for her and honda cbr i need to get over to her parrents, but atleast my house is clean

i dont know, im kind of lost

You need to keep busy then. Sounds like you were busy in the house but need to spend a bit of time away or something?

there is no where to go and nothing left to do, i cant go out and spend money, im going to have a had time paying the bills next month as it is.

im in construction, its been a hard last few years as it is

Sorry to hear about that SEMI PRO sometimes things happen for a reason. Dont know you other than here but you seem like a relly good guy.dont dwell on it , i know its hard from personal experience.at the end of the day you will find that you are a much better person and dont deserve being treated that way :yes:

That sucks but better you found out now than on July 5th or later...

No question you'll be hurting for a good while but you'll come out the other side better...

And don't take her back... Trust me she'll try... F'ing the boss never lasts...

Porn, fixes everything.

I cant say I knw exactly how you're feeling, but I do know what its like to be stabbed in the back by a girl you thought was you're friend; not a pleasant feeling & Im still kinda seething ~9 months later. Keep busy though, r/c would actually be a good outlet ( think of all the extra cash you'll have too now that you dont have to spend it on her, spend it on bills instead ), try and build some bridges with old friends and family- suprising how sympathetic & understanding people can be about these things, I've seen how GFs can take over one's life to the detriment of your other friends and relatives.

You'll probably have the last laugh though, a relationship between a boss & emplyoee is never a terribly sound base really, especially if someone grassed on the boss to his boss say ( area manager/ head office etc ).... :whistle:

Take care, and remember; porn. :smile:

A character building time of your life, ha? Do you workout and do excersize? Maybe a time to start. It's going to be a hard rut to pull yourself out of. Please don't take anything we say the wrong way.

i know and i wont, i a bigger man than that, i have seen how it turns out to many times i dont want to always be worring about when it could happen again or if it is.

cough!!!! cough!!! Talk about thread jacking:lol:
hopfully that made you smile SEMI

My condolences Semi Pro...

I think that you're better off knowing the truth before going any further in the relationship. Like that Tekno/MMM combo you had, something just wasn't right and it's best to cut your losses (even if you can't exactly get a refund on love lost).

Nothing is harder to deal with than a broken heart. I think the feeling sticks around all damn day and night, and the smallest little reminder of your happy days will send you into a days worth of tailspin and staring at the wall.

My first girlfriend cheated on me. I was 18 and she was 28, so it was bound to happen. I wanted to throw a rock at every girl I saw for about a week, then got over it.

Then I turned the tables and did the opposite, habitual cheater.. not trusting anyone. But looking back, I was just as much of an a$$ for doing so.

Now I call 'em straight. RC's will be here long before and waay after any of you gals will, and NO, you can't drive any of 'em. Don't even look at 'em too hard. Just like having a lil fun every once in awhile..

Seriously tho, cheer up man. You've got more friends here than you know of. I've also got an extra medussa motor if you need it. PM me..