Originally Posted by suicideneil (Post 368636)

Porn, fixes everything.

I cant say I knw exactly how you're feeling, but I do know what its like to be stabbed in the back by a girl you thought was you're friend; not a pleasant feeling & Im still kinda seething ~9 months later. Keep busy though, r/c would actually be a good outlet ( think of all the extra cash you'll have too now that you dont have to spend it on her, spend it on bills instead ), try and build some bridges with old friends and family- suprising how sympathetic & understanding people can be about these things, I've seen how GFs can take over one's life to the detriment of your other friends and relatives.

You'll probably have the last laugh though, a relationship between a boss & emplyoee is never a terribly sound base really, especially if someone grassed on the boss to his boss say ( area manager/ head office etc ).... :whistle:

Take care, and remember; porn. :smile:

Originally Posted by killajb (Post 368641)

My condolences Semi Pro...

I think that you're better off knowing the truth before going any further in the relationship. Like that Tekno/MMM combo you had, something just wasn't right and it's best to cut your losses (even if you can't exactly get a refund on love lost).

Nothing is harder to deal with than a broken heart. I think the feeling sticks around all damn day and night, and the smallest little reminder of your happy days will send you into a days worth of tailspin and staring at the wall.

My first girlfriend cheated on me. I was 18 and she was 28, so it was bound to happen. I wanted to throw a rock at every girl I saw for about a week, then got over it.

Then I turned the tables and did the opposite, habitual cheater.. not trusting anyone. But looking back, I was just as much of an a$$ for doing so.

Now I call 'em straight. RC's will be here long before and waay after any of you gals will, and NO, you can't drive any of 'em. Don't even look at 'em too hard. Just like having a lil fun every once in awhile..

Seriously tho, cheer up man. You've got more friends here than you know of. I've also got an extra medussa motor if you need it. PM me..

Originally Posted by _paralyzed_ (Post 368644)

come wrench on my cars? My buddy has been a framer for 13 years, he just took a landscaping job as a laborer. The trades in MN are definitely slow right now.

Get those last reminders of her outta there.

Take care of yourself, nobody is worth losing yourself over.

When you're ready it's dollar beers at the King of Diamonds 4-6 and $10 lap dances. On me. I know your not ready to hear that, but I'm long overdue for a run to KOD.

Wish I could help... only time will.

Originally Posted by Semi Pro (Post 368648)

lol k.o.d im going to have to pass on that my freind i knew to many strippers and i dont drink, now may not be the best time to start , trust me i thought about it, there is enuff in my house to keep me wasted for a week or two

Originally Posted by _paralyzed_ (Post 368651)

I don't drink either, had to offer. I've got kids, I'm a straight shooter (well, whacked in the head, but a good person) And have plenty of r/c's that need wrenching. I'm just across the river. I've never met another RCM member in real life. It could be a dream come true:love:

Originally Posted by _paralyzed_ (Post 368655)

Neil, your messing things up. I'm trying to give the guy a pet Harold. Of course he'll take a cat over me. Sheesh

Originally Posted by suicideneil (Post 368652)

Get a pet cat or dog, or something else cute that offer lots of affection ( tribble perhaps? ). I live on my own & it does get kinda lonely, but being in a 5th floor flat makes owning anything other than fish a hassle; the mouth action on gold-fish is kinda tempting though for a singleton.... http://forums.bit-tech.net/images/smilies/worried.gif