[JERRY2KONE]

Are you kidding me. How many of you guys watch the UFC fights? Don't tell me that we don't like violence. If he gives you any more crap just ask linc to send over a couple of his "Butler Monkies" to take care of the situation. Just kidding. Violence is never a good way to handle personal situations. Like it was stated most of the guys on here are a little bit older and give good advice for these kinds of situations. A show of force is sometimes needed, but usually only as a last resort when all else has failed. For the most part the intellectual approach is always more productive. Besides your first concern should be her position in all of this. As long as your relationship with her is in the right place, then she can handle him on her own, unless she asks you for assistance with the matter. She also needs to know that you trust her for her own self esteem. Women never like it when men interfere like they are too weak to take care of themselves. On the other hand if you approach your friend with communications about this and he plays it off, then he is only trying to get your goat and rall you up for his own entertainment.