[JERRY2KONE]

Well this is good news, because you have the upper hand in things now. His secret game is not secret any longer. You know what to expect from him and you no longer will play his game. There are a million ways to handle just about any situation and you have to find what works for you. Like it was posted I would just shut him out and take away any chance for him to mess things up between you and your woman. Since she seems to be pretty open about the whole thing ask her what she thinks and how she would like to deal with this scumbag. Keep his in the loop and let her more or less guide your approach to the matter. I will let her know that she can trust you and that you appreciate her opinion in tough matters. She is the most important person in all of this, and you need to keep it that way.

Focus your attention on her and have fun. Life goes by pretty quickly and we tend to miss a lot more than we know. Good luck with that.