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10.11.2005, 11:34 AM
350, I would suggest not changing anything about yourself (that includes dropping your hobby) for a potential mate. In fact, dropping your hobby may be worse than keeping it. You see, when we go changing ourselves to look better for a potential mate we often find those changes not so palatable over time...and may make us bitter towards our decision to drop one thing or another for a relationship.
You are you and must continue to be yourself. The right mate will enjoy you for you...starting to sound repetitive but there's a preponderence of truth behind my advice.
This of course goes both ways, you'll have to enjoy her for her and hope that she's being herself and not fake.
Good luck.
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