View Single Post
Old
  (#15)
C.H.U.D.
Guest
 
Posts: n/a
10.11.2005, 11:34 AM

350, I would suggest not changing anything about yourself (that includes dropping your hobby) for a potential mate. In fact, dropping your hobby may be worse than keeping it. You see, when we go changing ourselves to look better for a potential mate we often find those changes not so palatable over time...and may make us bitter towards our decision to drop one thing or another for a relationship.

You are you and must continue to be yourself. The right mate will enjoy you for you...starting to sound repetitive but there's a preponderence of truth behind my advice.

This of course goes both ways, you'll have to enjoy her for her and hope that she's being herself and not fake.

Good luck.
   
Reply With Quote