Wow , only two days and Paypal has refunded my money
Seems my wife accidently opened a link to a fake email asking to upgrade my card info as it had expired even though she didn't update the info and they didn't get my card or banking information they got my passwords when she logged into the fake site.

Needless to say i have changed all passwords on the computer , limited my Paypal funds and have ordered the security key and she must not reply to any emails unless i look at them first