[magman]

Originally Posted by jayjay283

I hear what you guys are saying but not all falimilies are like that. I inherited 2 teenagers many years after their parents died. I didn't have a hand in raising them, they were dropped on my doorstep by a giant stork lol. they have their ways and means and its so hard to break them of this (stealing, smoking etc). Its depressing and pathetic. I was going to throw them out of my house but I took a roadtrip in my car (got the jetta going 142mph) debating to yank the wheel if you know what I mean. I saw a bunch of farm houses and thought about having no one and I don't want them to be like that. I am just unprepared for the hell god is putting me through LOL

He must have put them in your care for a reason....and not to torment you. Although it probably feels like it. Inheriting 2 teenagers at any time would be a monumental task. In your situation...wow....what a tough spot. Hang in there and hopefully things will work out for all of you.