[BrianG]

OK nbaz, I understand your pain, but you're gonna have to relax. If you're of drinking age, have a beer to calm down. ;)

Until you understand the wiring, I would charge/balance each battery seperately. It will take longer but will be much simpler.

That balancer looks like a Hyperion LBA6 clone. It's not the exact same, but the connectors sure are. Attached is the LBA6 manual in PDF format. Skip to the diagrams at the end and study them carefully to see how the balancer wires are hooked up. Understanding how it works is key to hooking them up right. There is no magic here, it all makes logical sense when you think about it.

If your pack's balance connector wires do not match up to the balancer, it won't work. You may have to move a wire or two on the balancer adaptor so each wire on your pack goes to the correct wire on the pack connector. You just have to make sure the wires are in the correct order if/when you move them.