A girlfriend learns the hard way.

[JERRY2KONE]

Not me man. I would first be wondering how he could get up the courage to post up on a site full of men complaining about his girl buying handbags. I would say be a man and stop being a wuss. Grow some and set things straight. Things like this have to be on a somewhat even scale so the spending balances out. My wife has her hobbies and jewlery stuff too and I do not interfer in her decisions regarding those areas, and she does not interfer in my stuff either. Being in a relationship should never be about control on either side. Find the common ground and keep the playing field even. Don't be greedy or try telling her what she can and/or cannot do. If you have to go there, then you are already in trouble. Talk with one another and make sure that you listen to.