You're doomed already! I do believe the plugs on the back of those motors are all 5.5mm yes. There is no reason why it should burn up though unless its DOA, which is extremely rare with motors of that quality. Its just a shame that FD hasnt got the best of after sales service.
SO ill have to put 5.5mm male plugs on the esc? SO I ll need 3 males for the esc and 3 more to do the delta or wye setup? right? What way is the delta setup? star?? Im sorry for all the q, but Im learning.