Grampa Jerry, closer to death

[JERRY2KONE]

Originally Posted by George16

Happy birthday Jerry.

To reach 90+, you have to eat healthy (minimum red meat, no soda etc) :).

Screw that crap. I don't and have never smoked, and we rarely drink alcohol and that is about as far as I am willing to sacrifice. About the only real bad habit I have is biting my nails, but I have been working on that. Trust me the foods we cook and serve in our house are extremely good and also very healthy, but our lives are about comfort and living well. I do drink soda pop but hardly more than one or two a day. Plus I still force myself to down at least one or two 16oz bottles of spring water every day to keep the kidneys clean and working well. My wieght is proportional so I am doing fine in that area (6" - 185lbs). I do lack on the exercise area somewhat, but I am not doing too bad for 51. Unless I run into a problem like diebeties or something along those lines I am not giving up $h1t. I have sex several times a week, which Dr. Oz says leads to a long and healthy life. We never argue over anything, and in fact the only stresses we have are 11, 13, & 14 now. They challenge us on every turn, but we team up on them, and I refuse to be beaten by a child of any age. Stength in numbers stratagy. Together we're strong, devided we fall. So 90 here I come.

PS: and thanks Lito. I'm 51 and still going strong.

[pinkpanda3310]

I'm glad things are going well for but there was just a little too much information in that last post of yours Jerry. I enjoyed reading it up till the point you mentioned old people and sex.

Must have been quite a day with the cd mount and super bowl on your b'day. Happy b'day by the way.

Why do they call it Super Bowl anyway? I here on tv etc... 'going out to play ball', where does the bowl come in to it?

[lutach]

Happy B-Day.

[rchippie]

[QUOTE=JERRY2KONE; I have sex several times a week, which Dr. Oz says leads to a long and healthy life.



When your by yourself it does not count as sex .

[lincpimp]

Originally Posted by rchippie

When your by yourself it does not count as sex .

Try telling Harold that...

Hope the day treated you well Jerry. And hope you got some b-day nookie!

As far as older people still doing it, I hope so, cause I would hate to be that age and not getting any...

[JERRY2KONE]

Originally Posted by lincpimp

Try telling Harold that...

Hope the day treated you well Jerry. And hope you got some b-day nookie!

As far as older people still doing it, I hope so, cause I would hate to be that age and not getting any...

You bet ya James. I figure to be getting my dew until my body is no longer capable of doing so. Hopefully that will be many mnay years from now. It gets better as you get older thats for sure. I guess you are thankful to still be diong it after 50.

Why do they call it Super Bowl anyway? Because it is usually played in a bowl. That is what they started calling the huge stadiums many years ago, because they look like great big bowls.

[rootar]

Originally Posted by JERRY2KONE

I have sex several times a week, which Dr. Oz says leads to a long and healthy life.

hell yes something we can all use agianist our GFs and Wives...

"Honey if you love me you would "love" me daily to promote a long and heathy life, and a step further would be to not argue or stress me...."

I wonder how well that will go over

[JERRY2KONE]

Originally Posted by rootar

hell yes something we can all use agianist our GFs and Wives...

"Honey if you love me you would "love" me daily to promote a long and heathy life, and a step further would be to not argue or stress me...."

I wonder how well that will go over

You have to find a happy balance with someone who wants the same things you do in life. That is our problem as human beings. We rush into Marriage too quickly and end up finding out the hard way that the person we chose is not the best match for us. I did it twice before, and found out that it was a mistake plain and simple. Opposites attract is true, but opposites will eventually move away from each other. You cannot stop Nature. We need to be more exacting about searching and finding the right match for us. If you find that you are making excuses for or accepting flaws just to conform and not rock the boat, than you are making a big mistake. We can all find it within ourselves not to fight over the little things and even the big things if you work on your own self control. It is so much easier to talk through the issues and find peaceful resolutions to fix the problems. Especially if it is with someone you claim to love and want to spend the rest of your life with. Now I understand why OUR parents always tried to tell us to wait until you have had the time to experience life and gain some inner knowledge that will help us make better choices. It is the easiest way to live, but we get hastey and just cannot wait to live that dream.

If you have to beg and/or coax someone to get busy, then there are other issues that need to be worked out preventing them from moving forward. Work out your issues and keep playtime seperate. Never use one to control the other or it will cause even bigger problems. We can only control one side of the equasion, and that is ourselves. If the other side is not willing, then you are wasting your time. TIME is much too precious to waste on an unwilling partner.