Need some advice...

[TexasSP]

Remember BP last time you may have been under age and now you are an adult which means you have to handle this more tactfully than being in high school.

Document what he does and all contact, I mean everything. (I have been through something similar and have family that are lawyers and in law enforcement). Make sure your GF clearly states that she doesn't want contact with him, and document this too. Save the AIM messages and back them up. Talk to your local law enforcement about what makes a clear violation so that you are prepared when you need to report him. I know California has some pretty strict laws regarding harassment and the like. When it gets to the point he has violated the law, get local law enforcement involved. Don't take any chances talking to him or making threats that can bite you in the butt. As a wise old friend I know always told us younger guys, "sometimes you can call a person and SOB without actually having to call them an SOB".

If he truly is a sociopath, you do not want to provoke him. Being the size he is probably makes it worse as I would imagine he has taken a lot of crap for it over his life.

[georgec]

Originally Posted by TexasSP

Remember BP last time you may have been under age and now you are an adult which means you have to handle this more tactfully than being in high school.

Document what he does and all contact, I mean everything. (I have been through something similar and have family that are lawyers and in law enforcement). Make sure your GF clearly states that she doesn't want contact with him, and document this too. Save the AIM messages and back them up. Talk to your local law enforcement about what makes a clear violation so that you are prepared when you need to report him. I know California has some pretty strict laws regarding harassment and the like. When it gets to the point he has violated the law, get local law enforcement involved. Don't take any chances talking to him or making threats that can bite you in the butt. As a wise old friend I know always told us younger guys, "sometimes you can call a person and SOB without actually having to call them an SOB".

If he truly is a sociopath, you do not want to provoke him. Being the size he is probably makes it worse as I would imagine he has taken a lot of crap for it over his life.

+1 Very sound advice indeed