Advice needed!

[redshift]

Jerry cut the kid some slack... I don't think he's here looking for a drill instructor And I think he's been more than up-front about the situation.

Humans can survive without lots of things for sure. I don't see many people selling furniture when times are tough, even though they can sit on the floor... It is a matter of what's important to you. Having a wife who not only tolerates the hobby, but actually partakes? Damn I know 90% of you are crazy envious of that!

[JERRY2KONE]

Yes I am a bit old fashioned. I am American born and rasied on American values. Sure I may come accross kind of brash when it comes to this kind of subject, but We are in tough times right now. Your wife might lose her job tomorrow, then what? WHat if she becomes pregnant and has to leave her job for medical reasons? I never said give up your hobby or your dreams. You may want to set it aside for the moment and focus on whats really improtant in your life. I think its great that your wife is supportive of your wants and needs. Hell I wish more women were at that level of conciousness. Good for you, but you still have to stand up and fill the roll of being the man. My wife also makes more than I do(so what), but I don't sit around relying on her to cover my a$$ financially. And you bet that I take care of the house and keep things running smoothly while she is at work every day. I am lucky because I now work from home. Self respect. I started working at the age of 13 to help out at home. Once I turned 18 and joined the US Navy I never went one day without a means of supporting myself and that of my family situation until I retired in 1997. Call it pride or whatever you wish. Now even retired I still work so we can both be involved in the hobbies that we choose. We are very much focused on our family life, but we make sure that we have room for the extra stuff as well.

Yes I may be a bit tough on these matters, but the bottom can fall out on any of us in a second. You have to cover your six.

[reno911]

Originally Posted by JERRY2KONE

Yes I am a bit old fashioned. I am American born and rasied on American values. Sure I may come accross kind of brash when it comes to this kind of subject, but We are in tough times right now. Your wife might lose her job tomorrow, then what? WHat if she becomes pregnant and has to leave her job for medical reasons? I never said give up your hobby or your dreams. You may want to set it aside for the moment and focus on whats really improtant in your life. I think its great that your wife is supportive of your wants and needs. Hell I wish more women were at that level of conciousness. Good for you, but you still have to stand up and fill the roll of being the man. My wife also makes more than I do(so what), but I don't sit around relying on her to cover my a$$ financially. And you bet that I take care of the house and keep things running smoothly while she is at work every day. I am lucky because I now work from home. Self respect. I started working at the age of 13 to help out at home. Once I turned 18 and joined the US Navy I never went one day without a means of supporting myself and that of my family situation until I retired in 1997. Call it pride or whatever you wish. Now even retired I still work so we can both be involved in the hobbies that we choose. We are very much focused on our family life, but we make sure that we have room for the extra stuff as well.

Yes I may be a bit tough on these matters, but the bottom can fall out on any of us in a second. You have to cover your six.

I appreciate the advice and it is taken into consideration. I feel the gnawing end that seems to be nearing. I understand my situation and am in and I have already done things to make repair. These times are a bit out of hand. I was at a Job fair today at the Grand Seirra, a local casino, and only 10 vendors showed up for close to 400 people that supposedly had attended. I arrived at 45 till 11 and I was probably 40th in line. Though I didn't feel I got anything from it I still left resumes with three of the vendors. There is another at our local university next wednesday that I will also be attending. My brother is going through ropes to see if he can get me a job with his work though they laid of their most recent employee, I would enjoy working for him at USBS. I am an idiot, but not a complete one. I knew what I was doing by leaving, I know what I will have to do if nothing proper comes up.

However I did get good advice to which route I wanted to take with my RCs. Looking at how so many here have so many, and knowing that so many here have went through the same feuds regarding selling or not. I have talked things over with the wife and I am going to loose most of them so that we can have some extra to put into the OS savings account. We have an OS savings account that we started adding to back when she and I were both working two jobs. It is a second savings account that has slowly grown to a decent amount that we usually only dip into for things like furniture or a new computer...

I guess I should just be grateful for having peers like everyone here that will give me the tough answer I rarely get elsewhere.

And with that I think I am pretty much over this conversation and I have a feeling others here are thinking it has dragged out a bit longer than expected. So thanks everyone for letting me tell you a little about my life story. Next time it will be less ranting.

[tedo]

Dude, get a scaler!!!! Way more fun than a traditional ax-10 or crawler. They can crawl, get submerged in mud and water, and look cool as shit. Go to rccrawler.com and peak around in the scaler sections. My name is tedo over there too, to see my build and pics. A $9 zippy 2200 last 45 minutes in the woods..

Sorry, had to change the subject, and thought he could use some "rc advice". We are all addicted to rc, some just post more than others..haha.

Good luck with everything reno911.

[reno911]

Originally Posted by tedo

Dude, get a scaler!!!! Way more fun than a traditional ax-10 or crawler. They can crawl, get submerged in mud and water, and look cool as shit. Go to rccrawler.com and peak around in the scaler sections. My name is tedo over there too, to see my build and pics. A $9 zippy 2200 last 45 minutes in the woods..

Sorry, had to change the subject, and thought he could use some "rc advice". We are all addicted to rc, some just post more than others..haha.

Good luck with everything reno911.

Thanks but I think I am in the works of a trade. My caster fusion, with motor and a 2.4 for his axial with pretty equal value. I like the tube chassis look. TCS has that eclipse and edge chassis. I like that idea. Ever since I read a recent article on RC Driver magazine about a rock racer I liked the idea of a crawler that can haul.

[JERRY2KONE]

Hey Reno911 no problem at all. We do like sharing what we know in the hopes that it will help others make calulated decisions from our experiences. Just one more note for you. Just putting in reume's will get you no where. You have to go back after one week and show them that you are truly interested and want whatever job you applied for. Most employers receive dozens of apps every day and if they never here from those people again they will only figure that they must have found work elsewhere. You have to let them know that you are motivated and ready for work. Think about it. Who would you want working for you. Someone who sets around waiting for a phone call, or someone who takes the intiiative to call back and get some level of resolution? Good luck with the job hunting.

Please don't take any of what I said as any kind of an attack on your character Sir. You came asking for advice and we will surely give it to you, even if it might be something that stings a little bit. Jtheissen is right about me. I have been through alot over the last 50 years and have helped young men and women change their lives for the better all over the world. I realized a long time ago not to sugar coat anything just to apease someone elses fragile sensibilities. I don't share advice just to hear myself talk. I have worked around the globe and I know how to get a job. Subtle tactics are for loosers. I have not gone one day of my adult life without employment. If I leave one job, you can bet that I will be starting another job the very next working day. Employers look for things like that when hiring. If you have breaks in your employment they look at this as a sign of laziness, unless you can show medical or hardship reasons for those breaks.

[George16]

Originally Posted by JERRY2KONE

Hey Reno911 no problem at all. We do like sharing what we know in the hopes that it will help others make calulated decisions from our experiences. Just one more note for you. Just putting in reume's will get you no where. You have to go back after one week and show them that you are truly interested and want whatever job you applied for. Most employers receive dozens of apps every day and if they never here from those people again they will only figure that they must have found work elsewhere. You have to let them know that you are motivated and ready for work. Think about it. Who would you want working for you. Someone who sets around waiting for a phone call, or someone who takes the intiiative to call back and get some level of resolution? Good luck with the job hunting.

Please don't take any of what I said as any kind of an attack on your character Sir. You came asking for advice and we will surely give it to you, even if it might be something that stings a little bit. Jtheissen is right about me. I have been through alot over the last 50 years and have helped young men and women change their lives for the better all over the world. I realized a long time ago not to sugar coat anything just to apease someone elses fragile sensibilities. I don't share advice just to hear myself talk. I have worked around the globe and I know how to get a job. Subtle tactics are for loosers. I have not gone one day of my adult life without employment. If I leave one job, you can bet that I will be starting another job the very next working day. Employers look for things like that when hiring. If you have breaks in your employment they look at this as a sign of laziness, unless you can show medical or hardship reasons for those breaks.

I thought you took a dayoff after your retirement ceremony from the Navy .

[Finnster]

Originally Posted by JERRY2KONE

Yes I am a bit old fashioned. I am American born and rasied on American values. Sure I may come accross kind of brash when it comes to this kind of subject, but We are in tough times right now. Your wife might lose her job tomorrow, then what? WHat if she becomes pregnant and has to leave her job for medical reasons? I never said give up your hobby or your dreams. You may want to set it aside for the moment and focus on whats really improtant in your life. I think its great that your wife is supportive of your wants and needs. Hell I wish more women were at that level of conciousness. Good for you, but you still have to stand up and fill the roll of being the man. My wife also makes more than I do(so what), but I don't sit around relying on her to cover my a$$ financially. And you bet that I take care of the house and keep things running smoothly while she is at work every day. I am lucky because I now work from home. Self respect. I started working at the age of 13 to help out at home. Once I turned 18 and joined the US Navy I never went one day without a means of supporting myself and that of my family situation until I retired in 1997. Call it pride or whatever you wish. Now even retired I still work so we can both be involved in the hobbies that we choose. We are very much focused on our family life, but we make sure that we have room for the extra stuff as well.

Yes I may be a bit tough on these matters, but the bottom can fall out on any of us in a second. You have to cover your six.

hehehe... oh man.


Seriously tho, perhaps you should try opening a checking/savings acct just for RCs. Figure out what your budget is, contribute that every month, and only draw from that acct to pay for RC stuff. $ from sold items goes into there.

Helps force budgeting on people who are not great at it.

[JThiessen]

You'd be a wiser man if you took a little heed to advice from people who have been down the road you are on - aka Jerry. Yes, he can be a little harsh, but his message is true. I had a few paragraphs of "advice" typed up, but deleted it - it will mean nothing to you.

Just one thing. Go to a physical therapist instead of wasting your money on a Chiropractor. Unless you have a bone disease, or a significant injury in which your bones were unable to heal, you need to build up your muscle strength so that your joints and spine dont have to take the abuse. Chiropractors are on the fine line of being an addictive "need" also.

[DwightSchrute]

Originally Posted by JThiessen

You'd be a wiser man if you took a little heed to advice from people who have been down the road you are on - aka Jerry. Yes, he can be a little harsh, but his message is true. I had a few paragraphs of "advice" typed up, but deleted it - it will mean nothing to you.

Just one thing. Go to a physical therapist instead of wasting your money on a Chiropractor. Unless you have a bone disease, or a significant injury in which your bones were unable to heal, you need to build up your muscle strength so that your joints and spine dont have to take the abuse. Chiropractors are on the fine line of being an addictive "need" also.

well put about the physical therapy. i did more healing in 2 months of physical therapy than 2 years in a chiropractor's office.