my ignorance has led me into a situation.

[Arct1k]

Just do it already... 2 year+ engagement isn't unusual- Worst case you are out a ring which you are giving her anyway....


A diamond solitaire is an engagement ring - either change it or man up...

[padrino]

Based on your post go for it..

I was engaged for about 4 years before we actually were married, an engagement isn't a pressure situation, just a meaningful commitment and since you've already had the conversation then this just makes it a little more real.