my ignorance has led me into a situation.

[rootar]

Originally Posted by _paralyzed_

why would you let what anybody else says change what you are doing?

You wanted to give her a ring, so give her a ring. If she questions it say that it is to match her necklace and earrings- the truth.

And if she looks at all disappointed when you say it is not an engagement ring, tell her what you told us- the engagement ring will be much bigger.

Stop second guessing yourself!

i had decided this before posting but it was fun hearing other's opinions