ok what i was going to do was make a harness to wire my switch into that I can easily fit inline between the BEC and receiver rather than wire the switch into the existing wire.
To do this i really need the little plug type that will fit into the receiver. I could alternatively re-use the plugs I have and use a different kind of connector but this would pretty much defeat the purpose.
I also wanted to make up a little cable to remove the red wire from the ESC/Receiver connection as well, rather than hacking the red wire out of the the cable provided. To do this I will also need a socket for this little 3 pin flat connector with the corners trimmed off.
The 2 ends of this is what I was after, but this will probably do just fine
Thanks for the pointer Brian, now to find something local :)