You know the thing is that we men never really know what the hell these women are thinking

. Here is my view on things. A lot of people would say don't be so giving and keep your personal thoughts to yourself and you won't get hurt. My father use to tell me that nothing lasts forever, but still the only way you will learn from any of it is to hang your heart out there and be honest with her and yourself. If you get hurt that is just another one of Gods lessons for you. We learn new things from each relationship that we enter into. Sorry to say that is just the way life goes for all of us. Some people take a few weeks to recover or longer, and even still there are some who just jump right back on the next bird that passes by. Each to his own. You will get passed the pain and bounce back when teh time is right for you. We all wish you the best and as seen in quite a few of the threads on here we will lend our ear and our advice if you ask for it. Have a great weekend and find something to do that makes you feel really good. Good luck with that.
Oh and one more thing. The one way that always helps heal the pain quickly is to trade up when you start dating again. Never go backwards

That saying "ugly is only skin deep" is Bulls*&t. Ugly is ulgy all day long and into the night

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