I only have a few MaxAmps packs (2 X 2s2p 8Ah packs for buggy, and 2 X 2s1p 5Ah packs for the jato and CRT.5) and have been happy with them. Sure, they may drop voltage under heavy loads, but I never run batteries at their max rating (except for a project I'm currently doing - but that's another story).
As far as "too much" power: IMO, you would be better off getting a system capable of flipping the truck and then just turn down the ESC settings. If later on you want more power, it'll be there with a simple (and free) ESC setting change rather than buying new batteries and/or motor. It's better to have more power and not need it, than to not have the power and want it.
What I would get if it was me: Castle Creations is supposed to be releasing the MMM ESC very soon. Depending on how long you can wait, you might want to wait until they release the ESC and motor bundles, which could be a month or two later. The motor is based off the Neu design and is a 1515 size, so it should fit the bill nicely for ~$300 for the combo. Not bad at all. Or, just get the ESC when it comes out and get a seperate motor, but that will be more costly.
Either way, a larger 1515 Neu with ~2000kv on 6s would be perfect IMO. Geared for around 45mph, you should be able to get ~30 minutes on 5Ah if you don't mind a battery swap. Or, go for a 10Ah pack for the full 60 minutes of runtime (approximate).
And yeah, you're gonna see LOTS of acronyms here.
This page may help you out with those.
Anyway, welcome to the forums!