quiting rc for a lil bit...maybe longer

[Papa]

I feel like I need to step in here. Please do not take offense, it's not meant to be offensive. Just some sage advice. Most of us older guys have been there. DO NOT BE A WUSSY. Ladies like men that are men. Confidance, cocky, funny works. Good dancing trumps ugly every time. Have a plan make decisions and be yourself. Be a challenge. If you are into R/C now DO NOT STOP FOR YOUR GIRL. You might as well hand her a dog colar and a leash if thats what you have in mind. On Saturday when she ask what are you doing? Tell her you are going to the track. (pause) She 'll be bummed. Do not "ask" her to come with you. Just say "You should come with me!" If you pack a lunch bring enough for her. Bottom line she 'll be happy to just be with you. If not she ain't worth the aggrevation. There are alot a wealthy men that can't get the girl becouse they are wusses. Do not feel like a date has to involve spending tons of money. Yea, yea, they all like to be wined and dined but then again so do I! Try turning the table a bit. Keep it confidant, cocky and funny.