quiting rc for a lil bit...maybe longer

Some great advice here...
I have a quote for situations as these:
"No matter how good she looks, someone somewhere is tired of putting up with her sh!t!"

My advice would echo the others'. Don't give up RC completely for anyone but yourself. Putting it aside for the time being is one thing. Don't change yourself for anyone. As C.H.U.D mentioned, it will cause unforseen bitterness down the road.