Ok, here are the pictures: (they are big so I thought I'd link them)
3mm Spacing
4mm Spacing
Brake Spacer
RCM Mount with 3mm holes
I'm thinking that a possible solution for me would be to take the RCM brake spacer out to the shop and drill out two of the holes to fit 4mm screws. The 4mm spacing looks a lot more promising on the motor than the 3mm spacing. If I can fit the 4mm modded brake spacer on the motor then I can use the tapped screws on the brake spacer to mount to the motor mount.