No ask, no tell me

[kulangflow]

I tend to think some people may have pre-dispositions for certain preferences, but that does not mean they need to accept them and give in to them. I notice this by watching large families grow up together. The nuture part is as similar as possible, same parents, income level, etc, but sometimes one boy will drift toward dresses while the rest stay with sports. I think the same goes for murderers, etc.

I think it's okay to have differing opinions about all of this, but it's pretty tough to say you know for a fact one way or the other, regardless of how strong one's opinion may be.