No ask, no tell me

[reno911]

In that case would you say murderers, thieves, and rapist grow up to be what they are. Or is there a choice behind whether or not you kill someone. Your suggesting fate, or a predetermined life. Ultimately if that is the case than there is nothing to life. If I am going to die tomorrow as of an already decided fate, I think I may chose to be gay tomorrow. ;)

Being white, black, short, or tall are genetic traits. You can not chose those. Maybe alter them, but you can not chose your genes. There isn't such a case with homosexuality. It is a mental decision. Many gays live with the opposite sex for years before they decide to do what they want to do, which is decide that they want to be with the same sex.